By Mark Fernandes for BIS Mumbai
Aspirants at Don Bosco Lonavla engaged in a candid and reflective interaction with a vibrant group of Mumbai Salesians' Coadjutor Brothers who shared their personal vocation journeys, struggles and experiences of consecrated life.
Rather than presenting idealised narratives, the Brothers offered a grounded account of how vocation often unfolds gradually, through uncertainty, discernment and everyday experiences.
Br Savio Damle recounted how he had never planned to become a Salesian, yet slowly recognised what he believed was God's call. Drawing from his experience in youth ministry, education, administration and social outreach, he stressed that the central task of every Salesian is service to young people. He also highlighted the influence of Mary and the importance of responding generously to God's larger plan.
Br Alan Netto described his vocation as an unexpected journey, likening it to being “caught in a fishing net”. Br Anthonyar Manickam reflected on how professional life and a desire to serve the poor led him towards Salesian brotherhood. Br Vishal Waghmare spoke of how the witness of Salesian Brothers during his formation helped him recognise his own calling.
Br Damodar Wankhede narrated his adventurous and fascinating childhood upbringing and how he decided to join the Salesians of Don Bosco. He also spoke of his personal faith journey as a technical instructor and principal interacting with poor and socially marginalised young people. Br Vincent Nigrel shared his experience and vocation journey as a formator and as a man rooted in the soil of the earth recounting his personal experience with livestock and animal husbandry - an interesting facet of agriculture science in his years of living the Salesian life.
Coordinated by the Mumbai Salesians Coadjutor Brothers Delegate - Br Melwyn Carvalho, the Brothers emphasised that priesthood and brotherhood are equally authentic Salesian vocations. They underlined the value of formation, accompaniment, prayer and what they called the “language of the heart” — the capacity to understand, love and serve others.
The lively evening of joyful, fascinating and inspirational interaction encouraged the aspirants to remain open to unexpected paths, recognising that questions and struggles are often part of discernment. The interaction concluded with a simple Salesian invitation: “Learn to love Don Bosco and live cheerfully the life God has given.”